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As we celebrate the 175th Anniversary of the Archdiocese, we look back… on July 22, 1960 when ground was broken for St. Philip Church, East Windsor.
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 It was Thursday night, Jan. 6, 2006. The site, GM Place in Vancouver, British Columbia. Canada had just won the world junior hockey championship by vanquishing the Russian finalists by a score of 5-0. The hero of the night, and of the series, was 19-year-old Justin Pogge (sounds like Pogey). He had distinguished himself on this occasion by stopping 35 shots on net. It was his third shutout of the series, an overall accomplishment, unique in tournament play, that fully warranted his being cast in the spotlight as the “man of the hour.”

During the postgame celebration, he tipped his new world junior champion baseball cap to a wildly exuberant crowd, a gesture that acknowledged the regular chanting of his name – Pogge, Pogge, Pogge – that resounded throughout the packed arena during the game as well as during the entire series.

Goalies are supposed to make saves: pad saves, stick saves, skate saves and kick saves. It was the latter type, his very first, however, and one that took place away from the hockey rink and the roaring crowd, that was by far his most important, for it saved not merely a goal, but two lives.

Let us wind the clock back some 19 years. Here we find 22-year-old Annet Pogge attending her engagement party. It was an elaborate affair to which 126 friends and relatives came to offer their best wishes. If the hopes of the well-wishers proved effective, however, it was not for any forthcoming marriage, but for something entirely different, though certainly not less significant.

Annet was four months pregnant. When she informed her boyfriend of her condition, he walked out on her, leaving his now ex-fiancée with the humiliating task of explaining to the expectant guests why there would be no marriage.

Her rejection, humiliation and ruined hope were too much for her to bear. She left the party that evening and walked to a bridge that spanned a river in her hometown of Fort McMurray, Alberta. She could drown all her sorrows at once by a single act.

“Just when I was thinking of doing it,” she told Toronto’s Globe & Mail, “when I was thinking of terminating everything, not just the pregnancy, but me, I felt a kick. It was light but I felt it. It was the first real sign of life,” she said. “I remember thinking, ‘Oh God. This is a sign. God wants me to live.’ I couldn’t end my life then. I couldn’t.”

The kick that signaled life defeated the pain that almost led to tragedy. This victory was one that Annet Pogge had to re-enact again and again before her son could begin executing his kick saves for large, enthusiastic audiences on a world stage.

Annet experienced financial hardship and made many sacrifices in keeping her son and allowing him to stay in hockey. She told him the story of that nearly fatal moment on the bridge, long before she told anyone else. As she explained to the Edmonton Sun, she wanted him to know that he was born out of love and that it was his action, gentle and unconscious though it was, that saved her from ending both their lives.

Two golden moments, one mirroring the other. The second, amidst fanfare and jubilation on a frozen ice surface in Vancouver. “Canada smashes Russia, takes gold!” was the headline of one Canadian newspaper. The first, alone on a bridge overlooking a watery grave, except for a gentle kick that reminded her that her life should be lived and not thrown away. The more golden moment by far was the one in which a kick save by an unborn child of four months kicked out despair and death.

The Toronto Maple Leafs of the National Hockey League already have signed Justin Pogge. By all indications, he has a most promising career ahead as a professional goaltender. His story is an invaluable reminder to all of us, however, that hockey at its best is just a metaphor, though one whose significance we should trouble ourselves to understand. Keeping a puck from crossing the goal line pales in importance when compared with what it symbolizes in the form of preventing discouragement from entering our hearts and threatening to destroy our lives and the lives of others who depend on us.

The task of the goalie, as we have mentioned, is to make saves. The word save is etymologically related to the word salvation. The best thing about sports is that it reminds us of a struggle that transcends itself, ultimately, between hope and despair, good and evil, life and death. We would be wise never to sever this link. The major difference between sports’ symbolism and life is that only in life can we all be winners.

“For of all sad words of tongue or pen,” wrote the poet John Greenleaf Whittier, “the saddest are these: ‘It might have been!’” Canada’s gold did happen, but it might not have been without their goalie who himself might not have been except for his mother’s love. This is a good story. But how many sad stories are there of things that “might have been” that cannot be told?

Dr. Donald DeMarco is a professor emeritus at St. Jerome’s University in Waterloo, Ontario and an adjunct professor at Holy Apostles College and Seminary in Cromwell.

 

 
  
    

alertAt the Spring Assembly of the U.S. bishops, Cardinal Joseph Tobin suggested that a delegation ofbishops go to the border to see for themselves what was happening to newly arrived immigrants, families and children. On July 1 and 2, Cardinal Daniel DiNardo, president of the U.S. bishops conference, and five other bishops conducted a pastoral visit to the diocese of Brownsville, Texas. Stops included Mass at the Shrine of Our Lady of San Juan del Valle with the community, a visit to anHHS/OBR Shelter and Mass for the families there, a visit to the Customs and Border Patrol processing center in McAllen, TX, and a press conference at the end of their visit. Catholic News Service accompanied the bishops on their border trip. 

  1. Backgrounder and analysis of the bishops’ trip to the border: Cardinal DiNardo told CNS, “You cannot look at immigration as an abstraction when you meet” the people behind the issue.
  2. At final press conference, Cardinal Daniel Dinardo said the church was willing to be part of any conversation to find humane solutions because even a policy of detaining families together in facilities caused “concern.”
  3. Bishops serve soup to immigrant families at a center run by Catholic Charities and listen to their stories. Scranton Bishop Joseph Bambera said he found hope in hearing the people in the room talk about what’s ahead. They didn’t speak of making money but of finding safety for their children, he said, driven by “the most basic instinct to protect your family.”
  4. At an opening Mass he Basilica of Our Lady of San Juan del Valle-National Shrine near McAllen, Texas, Bishop Daniel Flores of Brownsville told Massgoers, “The bishops are visiting here so they can stop and look and talk to people and understand, especially the suffering of many who are amongst us,”

A delegation of U.S. bishops goes on a fact-finding mission at the U.S.-Mexican border to learn more about Central American immigration detention.

Following their visit to an immigrant detention center, U.S. bishops said they are even more determined to call on Congress for comprehensive immigration reform.